By Liz Marfia-Ash, Parent and President of GRIN2B Foundation

This past March was a meaningful month for our organization. We celebrated our very first #GRIN2BAwareness month. March was also the first month we were officially approved to receive donations, helping us further our mission of providing support and education to our community and, in time, furthering research on the GRIN2B gene.

We’ve had a huge influx of newly diagnosed parents join our Parent Support group on Facebook over the past year. Now that we’ve completed our first GRIN2B Awareness month, it seems like a good time to share the background on how our organization came together.

Back in November 2015, my daughter, Lucy, was almost 2 ½, and we were about a year into the GRIN2B diagnosis. We had connected with other GRIN2B families on Facebook, but it was probably less than 25 worldwide. None of the families were remotely near us geographically, and my husband and I assumed we’d likely never meet another GRIN2B family in person.

That Fall, we took Lucy to an appointment with her Neurologist at Ann & Robert H. Lurie Children’s Hospital of Chicago. As we were discussing my daughter’s symptoms, the doctor casually referenced another patient he had with a GRIN2B diagnosis. My husband and I were stunned. There was a family dealing with this diagnosis in the same state as us and seeing the same doctor? Obviously, our doctor couldn’t betray confidentiality and give us their info. Based on what little our doctor told us, I was not sure if this family was going to be joining our Facebook group soon. [No judgment here in case that family ever reads this. Every family has their own personal reasons for either wanting to connect or not wanting to connect.]

On our way home, I remember feeling confused. I had been naively assuming every diagnosed family would join our Facebook group, but what if they didn’t? And what if there were more families that weren’t on Facebook and would never find our group?

During that car ride home, I made a reluctant decision. Up to that point, we had only shared the name of Lucy’s diagnosis to close family and friends through email. On Facebook, we kept it purposefully vague; only saying she had received a “rare genetic diagnosis.” But at that moment I knew our Facebook group was limited, and if I wanted to find more families, I would have to write publicly about her diagnosis. I had just written a piece for the website, The Mighty, about being a special needs Mom so I knew that was the right forum to contribute another piece.

I am generally a private person so this was not a step I took lightly. I spoke with my husband at length about the ramifications of what I was considering. As I mulled over what to write for The Mighty about Lucy’s GRIN2B diagnosis in the weeks after this appointment, I came up with the idea to collect all the information that had been shared in the support group and build a website. I realized more families could be found if there was a website that came up after googling “GRIN2B.” With input from the families in the Facebook group, I began compiling information. Over the next year, I created www.grin2b.com, with the help of my sister and brother’s respective Graphic and Web design skills.

But, though I created the website and then, later, the Foundation, it is important to note that another Mom actually created the GRIN2B Parent Support Group.

Rewind to April 2014. A family in Alabama had just learned of their son’s GRIN2B diagnosis. Shortly after, Donna Dunn (our Vice-President) formed a private GRIN2B support group on Facebook. She was the sole member of that group until November 2014, when my daughter was diagnosed the day after Thanksgiving, and I posted about her diagnosis in a different online forum. Donna saw my post and responded, and I became the 2nd member of that GRIN2B support group.  

In the Fall of 2016, with the website nearing completion, I realized there was a greater chance of the medical community paying more attention to GRIN2B if we were formally organized. The idea of starting a nonprofit was incredibly daunting, but I was fortunate to be friends with a family whose son had FOXG1 Syndrome. Through that family, I connected with the people at The International FOXG1 Foundation and received invaluable guidance on how to go from parent to nonprofit leader.

First thing I needed was a Board of Directors. Besides myself and my husband, I thought it made the most sense to start with some of the first American parents who joined the Facebook group. Donna Dunn was my obvious first choice since she had started the Facebook group, and she was the first GRIN2B Mom I ever connected with. I was thrilled when she said yes right away. After that, I reached out to the second GRIN2B mom I had found several weeks after connecting with Donna, Charlotte Johnson. I had found Charlotte in a Facebook group about Hypotonia by searching through old posts for “GRIN2B.” For about a month, Charlotte, Donna and I were the only members of the GRIN2B Parent Support Group. The third Mom I reached out to was Carole Quennessen, another of the earliest American Moms to join the Facebook group. Both Charlotte and Carole eagerly agreed to join the Board. It was several months later when Brittaney Crider came onboard. Brittaney had reached out to me immediately after her daughter was diagnosed as she had read my article on The Mighty and was elated to connect with other families.

Since forming our board in 2017, we spent the better part of a year just filling out all the required paperwork to register GRIN2B Foundation as a charitable organization both in our Incorporated state of Illinois and with the United States government (to be honest, I also had a baby during this time, which understandably slowed us down a bit). Our Board members have all donated countless hours filling out paperwork, researching, sending emails, making phone calls and having late night video-conference board meetings in order to lay the groundwork for effectively running this organization. This is not a job that I or any of the Board Members take lightly. We have a LOT to learn, but we are fortunate to be connected to many other organizations that have advised us and will continue to advise us along the way.

Several people from other rare disease nonprofits have wisely advised us to remember that “it’s a marathon, not a sprint.” We are all very eager to jump in and start fulfilling our mission, but we are also trying to take the time to set this organization up correctly and not get too ahead of ourselves. I am truly honored to be working alongside a group of people that are dedicated to not only bettering the lives of their own GRIN2B children, but all individuals affected by a GRIN2B change. When we are meeting and making our plans, we are always thinking, first and foremost, about the most effective ways to serve our entire community. All of GRIN2B Foundation’s board members possess an abundance of intellect, integrity, common sense and determination.

In addition to our work during the Awareness month, our Board of Directors have been busy recruiting Medical professionals for our newly established Medical Advisory Board, contacting various individuals and organizations worldwide that are presently studying GRIN2B to begin to understand how we can work together, planning a GRIN2B Foundation Family Conference in Atlanta this September and numerous other special projects. It’s kind of a lot for a group that is entirely run by parent volunteers.

To our GRIN2B families, we look forward to serving you and hope to meet many of you at our Conference in September. Many of you have asked how you can help. We are working on plans to create several committees to help us fulfill our mission and will be posting information on ways you can be involved in the coming months. We thank you in advance for your patience as we put our internal structure into place.

Please email us at info@grin2b.com if you have any questions.

We will be adding bios of our board members to our website soon, as well as posting the names and bios of our Medical Advisory Board. Stay tuned!