By Liz Marfia-Ash, President & Founder of GRIN2B Foundation, Parent Advocate

On Wednesday, October 3^rd, I attended the 7^th Global Genes Rare Patient Advocacy Summit and I wanted to share my experience with our GRIN2B community. Possibly you might be thinking, “Wait a second, you’re going to tell us about the Global Genes Conference, but when are you going to fill us in on the GRIN2B Atlanta conference that took place in September?” Totally valid question. We are working on a newsletter that will recap the GRIN2B Conference experience and we are waiting on contributions from Board members, Researchers and Attendees. I promise, we will share all the details on our GRIN2B conference as well as videos of the presentations as soon as we can pull everything together.

In the meantime, I am coming off such a high from being surrounded by so many other like-minded individuals and I spent much of my 7 am flight home writing this blog.

If you’re not familiar with Global Genes, let me fill you in. Global Genes was founded in 2008 with the goal of helping families affected by rare disease connect with tools, resources, and much needed support, helping eliminate the challenges of rare disease. This year’s Summit was attended by eight hundred rare disease organizations, patients, advocates and partners. The resources that Global Genes offers via their website were integral in the early days of forming our Foundation.

Global Genes also offers a Foundation Alliance membership, bringing together rare disease foundations with a shared commitment to advocacy in order to build a stronger collective voice for the rare disease community. We are proud to be part of this Alliance and have made many valuable connections to other Alliance organizations.

The Summit took place this year at the beautiful Hotel Irvine in Irvine, California. Personal note, I had previously lived in California (near Los Angeles) for 9 years after graduating college and this trip was my first time back to California since moving away about 8 years ago. It’s a long flight, and I have not travelled much since having kids, but it was good to be back in sunny Cali and see the palm trees.

Due to my very busy work schedule and, you know, life, I was only able to attend the first day of the Conference – Wednesday. As we had all just traveled a week and a half ago for our GRIN2B conference in Atlanta, none of our other Board members were able to attend this event with me. A fellow GRIN2B parent, Pat, did attend with me, though I unfortunately barely saw him as we mostly attended different sessions.

In addition to soaking up all the rare disease knowledge, I was also very excited to connect in person with rare disease leaders at other organizations that I had previously only known via phone, Facebook or email.

I spent a large chunk of time in between sessions with my two co-President friends, Allison from SATB2 Gene Foundation and Haley from SETBP1 Society. SATB2 Gene Foundation started roughly around the same time we did and SETBP1 Society is just a little bit ahead of us. I have received so much valuable advice and support from these two lovely ladies via phone and email so it was a joy to meet them in person and trade notes.

I also had the privilege of meeting up with Amanda from The International CDKL5 Foundation. The IFCR has been around for 9 years and Amanda has been on the Board for a long time. Amanda and IFCR’s Science Director, Heidi had previously shared much of their wisdom on how to set up best practices in establishing a research grant application process. I am a bit of a rare disease organization groupie and I spend a lot of time cyber stalking other organizations so I can learn from what they are doing. It was a true pleasure to finally meet my mentors and peers in person.

Thank you to Global Genes for not only providing our #rare community such a warm environment to collaborate with our peers and mentors, but for also selecting an amazing roster of inspirational speakers.

The Keynote speaker on Wednesday was the vibrant and lovely Rachel Callander who shared her tear-inducing, uplifting speech about her book and movement, Super Power Baby Project.

Her message was about the power of using positive words when it comes to speaking about our #rare children. These words spoke right to my heart. Those that were at the GRIN2B Atlanta Conference a few weeks ago know that I shared a similar message in my opening remarks. (We will have this video available for you to watch soon!) Rachel’s story was one that many of us can relate to. When her daughter was born, she was diagnosed with partial Trisomy 9q and Partial Monosomy 6p and Rachel was told that these conditions were “incompatible with life.” Rachel hated the negative terminology and saw her daughter as beautiful and unique and as someone who lived in this world differently and that was okay with her.

Another relatable moment was her stress over having to fill out developmental questionnaires where the answer to every question about what your child can do is inevitably no. In response to this, she created “Evie’s Awesomeness Form.” On this form, she wrote up questions in relation to her daughter that would only receive a yes answer. I love the positive spin she put on this stressful task. When my daughter was a baby, I HATED those forms and eventually started to refuse to fill them out. Thankfully, our pediatrician was very understanding.

Favorite quote from Rachel – “You can’t be diagnosed with your identity.”

Sadly, Rachel’s beautiful daughter, Evie, passed away at the age of 2 ½, but she turned this devastating experience into something beautiful. She traveled all over her native New Zealand, capturing pictures of children with different genetic and chromosomal changes and put them all into the beautiful book, Super Power Baby Project. She also travels the world, giving speeches to encourage the medical community and others about the transformative power of using positive language. This talk was truly the highlight of my day. It’s now several days later and I can’t get this speech out of my mind.

Please watch her TedTalk here or check out her book. I bought a copy for myself and was honored to meet Rachel and get her autograph.

I could probably write for days about all that I saw, heard and experienced here, but none of us have time for that so I’ll sum up my key takeaways from all the sessions I attended throughout the day.

Though I liked and got a lot out of the scientific sessions, as a writer and someone who believes in the power of words, I am always going to gravitate towards the motivational speakers over the scientific ones.

“Words are, in my not so humble opinion, our most inexhaustible form of magic; capable of both inflicting injury and remedying it.“ –J.K. Rowling

The night ended on a high note with speeches from Mike Porath, founder of the website, The Mighty, and Gunnar Esiason, a young man living with Cystic Fibrosis. Both of their messages were extremely impactful.

Mike was inspired to launch The Mighty after his daughter was diagnosed with Dup15q Syndrome years ago. He saw the isolation he and other families felt and saw a need for a forum to share their stories. He also shared one of their most popular posts, this video, which I have seen many times, but it was somehow more meaningful watching in person, surrounded by fellow rare disease advocates. This was truly a full circle moment for me personally as sharing my family’s #grin2b story on The Mighty two and a half years ago was the beginning of our advocacy journey and is what, ultimately, led to where we are today with the Foundation.

The other message Mike shared that truly resonated was the importance of living in the moment. He spoke of how he had spent too much time worrying about what his daughter potentially wasn’t going to be able to do. This really struck a chord as I am a workaholic and not great at living in the moment, often thinking ten steps ahead. But when it comes to my daughter, I have gotten better at not projecting my fears of her future onto how I view her in the present. Our overwhelming feeling as a family is that she is who she is, and we will work hard to give her every opportunity to advance, but still love and cherish her for exactly who she is right now.

The last speaker was Gunnar Esiason, a Cystic Fibrosis patient and advocate. He was honest, engaging, inspiring and very funny. Gunnar is a very vocal advocate for the Cystic Fibrosis community and he shared what it was like growing up not fully understanding why he was different. He wisely advised parents to be open with their children about their diagnosis and to share the realities of any medications and procedures they might need. Also, when possible, parents should ask permission from their child should they choose to share their story publicly. I understand this is going to be difficult for many of our GRIN2B families as the majority of our children have speech limitations. My advice, should you choose to share publicly about your child, is to only share details that you would feel comfortable also sharing about yourself.

This one day event was informative, exciting, uplifting and, honestly, overwhelming. My brain was truly hemorrhaging information by mid-afternoon.

For me, the biggest takeaway was the comforting realization that our organization is on the right track in terms of pace, growth, mission and strategy. Everyone I met and spoke with was very supportive and encouraging and reinforced that we are on the right path. And it was clear that some of the bumps in the road we are dealing with are common problems in this rare disease nonprofit community. I look forward to attending this event next year with more members of GRIN2B Foundation and our parent community.

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